Ditch the bedroom TV.
Surveys show that this is a major turn off, the bedrooms not the place to be watching TV, there are other more worthwhile pastimes without this distraction.
Naughty is nice.
If you can add spice by dressing provocatively, maybe leave out the underwear, wear something a bit different, it will all help to add a bit of spice and naughtiness to the moment.
In foreplay
Why not pleasure yourself in front of each other. It may be strange at first but have the confidence and share the moment, you will both end up mega turned on and ready for the main act!
Try using mirrors.
Watching yourselves in action in a mirror from various angles can be a real turn on for you both, you’ll see things from angles and positions you have Lubrication, the more the merrier. Introduce a good quality water based condom friendly lubricant like Pasante TLC or Pasante Light. The more the merrier, massage each others genitals in foreplay, and it’ll really get things moving during your lovemaking.
Dark chocolate
Contains the sexually stimulating and feel good chemical phenylethylamine. A bite to eat before love making will help enhance both your moods. Avocado also contains good concentrations of the same.
Touching in public.
Not openly, but if you get the opportunity and the moment is right try a bit of naughty fondling or light caressing, nothing strong in case you get caught, but little and often will build the evening up for you both.
Al Fresco sex is always fun.
Your own garden can provide the perfect start, provided it’s secluded - the neighbours may not always enjoy watching! Alternatively, head to the countryside, in the summer the long grass can provide excellent cover for you. Be sure to pick a very secluded spot where you can hear or see people coming, and don’t forget a blanket.
Vibrating Rings.
There are a number of vibrating cock rings available, good reliable ones coming from www.postalcondoms.co.uk will spice things up and stimulate the clitoris during penetration giving a wild double pleasure orgasm.
Don’t just undress,
Undress slowly in front of her, the only contact is to be eye contact, Don’t let her touch you until you are fully de-robed and ready, you can then set about slowly undressing her.
Try sex in different locations
Around the house. Dark and enclosed areas can be very sensual as you have to feel your way around each others bodies. Places can include the broom cupboard, cloakroom, or even a wardrobe!
Photography.
Every mobile has a camera, and there are no shortage of digitals around most houses now, so get snapping, compare your snaps, take pictures of yourself during lovemaking from angles the other person cannot see. BUT remember, these pictures are not for sharing, and make sure they can’t be accessed by another member of your family or friends.
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For extra sensations and vibrations
Try having sex while sitting on the washing machine while on full spin cycle! The sensations will be enhanced with the vibrations, and it’ll be just as good for him.
Dress to impress.
Sensual underwear can drive a man wild. Red has always been the sensual colour, but with some fabulous selections available make sure you choose something you are comfortable with. Try leaving it on, there’s always something naughty about sex, panties akimbo!
Shower together before sex,
This makes excellent foreplay and take it in turns to use plenty of non irritating shower gel to massage each other with.
Go minty.
When he is going down on you get him to reach for the extra strong mints. This will super stimulate and tingle your most sensitive areas. Stop though and wash if irritation occurs!
A survey in the US
Has found that the most sensitive and pleasurable area of the vagina is the first third. Have your man play shallow with his penis, dipping in and out for extra pleasure Deep penetration is not always the answer!
Fed up with the taste of his semen?
Feed him lemon, cinnamon and mint, it’ll help improve the taste of the semen, and zinc helps boost and produce healthy semen. Avoid strong tasting garlic and onions, urghhh! --also pineapple is known to improve flavour (as is anything with a lot of fructose), but grapefruit, beer, caffeinated drinks, meat and smoking all leave bitter compounds in the system, so switch from cola to pineapple juice!
Ask your man to add to the fun
When going down on you. The use of a small sex toy, giving light and gentle stimulation, or even slipping his fingers gently inside and stroking the upper inner wall of your vagina can really enhance your pleasure. And make sure he takes his time, it’s a marathon not a sprint, it doesn’t matter if he misses the first 20 minutes of match of the day, he has a job to do! The angle of penetration has often been said to be the secret to the perfect orgasm. Try putting a pillow or cushion under your bottom to raise your pelvis and give optimum sensations around the contact area of your clitoris.
Ice cool!
Pop a couple of small ice cubes in your mouth before giving him a blow job, the cooling sensation will drive him wild. You can do the same with ice cream or frozen berries for more flavoursome fun!
Giving your man a hand job
Can be very enjoyable for both parties. Don’t be too gentle, give it all you have, and maybe add a little massage oil (be careful though as oil based products will break down latex condoms). A little dirty talk will also help bring things along faster, but remember the golden rules - no bending or twisting both can severely damage the penis. If you are not sure about your technique ask him to show you, he wont mind and it will make things better for you both.
Use your nails to arouse him
By gently running them animal like either side of his groin, and then after he’s fully aroused, try stroking over his sack and up the shaft of his penis. Be careful with sharp nails though because they will break a condom,
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